My Friend is my enemy, My Enemy is my friend.

"Isn't it strange that whatever one is today is influence of friends as well as enemies."

 

Yes you would think why enemies,everyone hates them.But before decrying think for a moment what you learned from them,you'll have your answer and then decide for yourself whether we need just friends in our life or enemies too.
 

Friends and adversaries both are vital in our life .Friend always helps us,be there almost in our every need,but unknowingly make us pawn our acumen in there hands.Sometimes making us lazy,dull and dependent,But enemies on the other hand although creating problems ,edify us to be active and focused always and not to be dependent on others.Friends  overcome our problems and antagonists prepare us to face them and never to fall in it again.
 

Let me tell you an incident that happened to a friend of mine,Rakesh.
In many colleges students prefer to do group studies as it does help them to solve many questions which they themselves face problems to.
Rakesh was not that good in studies and used to scrape in academics.So he asked the topper 'Vineet' of the class to help him with his studies.
But Vineet refused and told him to study by himself.Rakesh abused him and rasped   

"you are my enemy from now on"   and went to his dear friend for help.But was unable to comprehend even though his friend taught him well,as a result he failed in two of the subjects.
He felt very bad within himself.Next time he didn't consulted anyone and strived to pass. All were extremely astounded to see the result as he became the valedictorian of not just his class but of the whole college.
When asked what motivated him ,"it was him one whom he abused",was his reply.From a weak student he just soar like a humming bird.

It is true that one cannot think a life without friends but as it is said we get happiness only after pain,similarly one understand the value of true friend only when surrounded by hostile.
 

A country cannot bloom properly unless and until it does not have two political parties ,one which develops it and another preventing the other from destroying it.

It is commonly seen in India that one tries to help another during examinations,but this way he is also corrupting another and acting both as friend and foe.
People often talk about success but let me ask you how can anyone success in his field if there is no competitor.It would be like scoring goals when there is no other team to stop you.

By reading this if you think we need enemies and start making them then either it is problem with your selective listening or my quality of expressing,as it is not so,but to welcome both in adversity.
It is a famous saying that "a friend in need is a friend indeed",but wait ,it totally depends on what type of need.

 

"One should acclaim his friend , never hate his enemies and unflinchingly move toward success."

"Coward is never born but made 1."

Enjoying the bask beneath the sun,I was disturbed by the noise of few people.
They were arguing on,  that who is the most coward among them all and so

 decided to come up to a task to touch a dog which was laying  under a tree nearby.
All were trying to tug one another but none even attempted ,as they were so frightened to hardly approach it.Although dog looked calm and innocuous.They all laughed at each other and thought it is too silly and dangerous.

Just then a small child who maybe of one or two years old got near to the dog and slide his hand over it's face.
This whole thing staggered me.It was the same dog with same expression but no adult had nerve to even get close to it.I was confused and and went back home in daze.

"It was that time it came to my mind that we have been coward"

We all were once kids,but not frightened at that time then why are we now.

Does this fear and Coward's comes with birth or the environment and social life surrounding us ,has manipulated our behaviour and thoughts or is it natural to change as we develop.And how come same person disguise himself.

'What happened to those formative years where we learn to face every challenge bravely and without fear.'

To be courageous does not mean we should not take considerations deliberately but at least give it a try."Well it would be foolish enough to put your hands in fire to prove that you are brave",but flee from your place when fire is in another anther town is stupidity.
 

To analyse this more I brought a toy beer and fitted a red coloured led inside it which off and glow continuously.I then went to a nursery school and placed it on a table so that it is easily visible.Why was I not surprised seeing that almost every child literally tried to reach towards it.
To try it on adults ,I went to my office and dropped the same toy on the floor.Their reaction towards it are indescribable.For a few moment everyone looked it with suspicion and later called our head in charge,but nobody tried to touch it or get even close.Employees started making assumption about what it could be.I was astonished when someone asked to call the cops as it could be a bomb.
 

"What thing spur those kids and what is daunting these adults"I don't know,but this incident was enough to prove that
"No child in this world was born coward but is made one"
But the question still lies ,why?